Mother's Day Gifts For Every Haute Mom

If you're at a loss figuring out what to get your mom, wife, or yourself this Mother's Day and feel pinched for time, not to worry we've got ya covered.  Here are our top pick for every type of Haute Mommy this Sunday. The Haute Mom Who Has It All - The 24 Carat Gold Facial https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gmP_gSyGigc

The Haute Mom In Heels - Sole Soothers from www.footpetals.com  $40

The New Haute Mom - Chic Diaper Bag With a Good Cause http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/05/practical-mothers-day-gift-for-a-good-cause.html $195

The Haute Mom With Grown Kids - Fancy Frame (Digital Frame with rotating pictures) $125 amazon.com

The Active Haute Mom - Customize With NikeiD http://store.nike.com/us/en_us/pw/womens-nikeid-shoes/1k9Z7ptZbrk?ipp=84  100+++

The Haute Mom/Foodie - Cheese Of The Month- http://www.murrayscheese.com/monthly-clubs.html 4 months for $275

The Haute Hollywood Mom - The Book Of Joan by daughter Melissa Rivers barnesandnoble.com $15

My Kid Hates Me...

I was counting down the days until our first trip away. Vegas, my best friend’s wedding, Bloody Mary’s by the adult pool rather than bouncing babies at the kiddy pool. It was time for us to be kids again. I created this vision in my head for months leading up to our actual trip that I’d finally recharge my flickering battery (In Vegas?? Really??) returning more grounded, restored and present with a gleaming little boy at the front door chomping at the bit to greet me and jump back into my arms. Wow was I in for a surprise.

I returned home more exhausted ever (duh, it’s VEGAS!) and my baby wouldn’t even so much as look in my direction. I kneeled down to pick him up, overwhelmed to see how much he’d grown in literally 72 hours…first thing he did was push me away and reach out for my dad, who – along with my mom- stayed our place to watch him while we were livin it up. This continued all day, into the next. I was convinced, my kid hates me. And the guilt sets in. Maybe we should’ve only gone for 2 nights, maybe Gibson should have come with us…maybe maybe maybe… My mom assured me it was just “a phase” and “would pass”

We all know it’s tough to balance life as a mom and still manage to take time for ourselves whether it be a wknd away with the hubs or an afternoon to lunch with the ladies or 30 minutes to shower and blow dry our hair. I’m not one who’s willing to totally give up on myself and my needs ONLY to focus on the needs of my little guy. I believe we can do both and actually have it all. It’s true, my son comes first ALWAYS but I follow closely behind.

It was now 48 hours since coming back from our sinful wknd in Sin City. My son was slowly warming up to me and I could feel bit by bit his walls start to break down. At Mommy and Me that day, our teacher asked if anything new had taken place over weekend. Oh you mean other than my child tossing me to the side like an old, used-up toy?? Her response: “It’s totally normal.” What? For your child to hate you?! I’d never heard of this but then she explained that babies will often give parents the cold shoulder for up to 48 hours after they return from being away. Babies are confused, scared and not sure if you’ll leave them again so they instinctually put up a wall to perhaps protect themselves. This made total sense. Gibson was just acting as nature instructed him to…even if it was at my expense.

Fast forward to now, today- one week later. I can’t seem to suction my child off my hip. He’s back to being a total mamas boy – until next week that is. Palm Springs, another friend’s wedding, 2 nights away. At least I’m prepared this time.

I'm Pregnant, My Ass Is Fat, I Have Nothing To Wear, By Kelly Nishimoto

Haute Mom's Life Contributor and TV Star/Fashion Designer, Kelly Nishimoto lays it all out here in a hilarious and oh-so-real rundown of life as an expecting mama.  Take it away, Kell... As a mom, we’ve all been there. It’s like mental tug of war. On one hand we want to show off the fruit of our loins. On the other hand we are mortified at the onset of pregnancy cottage cheese, expanding hips, and enormous boobies! And to top it off…larger feet? What the hell? You think to yourself, as you move forward, deeper & deeper into this new chapter of life, “Will my ass ever be the same? What does my husband think of me now? Are people noticing?” Then reality hits. You’re exhausted & emotional. The last thing you want to think about is your wardrobe. Your jeans don’t fit anymore and you’re tired of leggings. Well ladies…it’s time to give in and embrace your mama curves! As a mom in the fashion & TV industry, who gained 60lbs during my pregnancy, I learned that there were a few key “go to” pieces that helped me survive! Obvi we want to look cool…but comfort is also key and with these 5 basics, you can’t go wrong…

5 MUST HAVE BASICS for every Haute Moms closet during pregnancy:

What: A Perfect Fitting Blazer - $25-$125

 Where to Buy: Zara | H&M | Forever 21 | Macy’s

The Deets: If there is one fashion lesson I learned while filming my show being 7 months pregnant is that a perfect fitting blazer is definitely a maternity & post pregnancy must!

Why they are great: Blazers are an easy way to fancyify your comfy jeans & a basic tank. They allow you to look polished but still be super comfortable.

Bonus Points: Blazers give you shape and the appearance of a slimmer waistline by hiding side fat & wide backs & shoulders all while showcasing your beautiful baby bump!

What: Wrap Sweater/Cardigan - $25-$85

 Where to Buy: Asos | Nasty Gal | Forever 21

The Deets: Soft knit wrap sweaters can be worn so many different ways. What did we do before these? They started off as a trend but have become the go to piece for most women and have replaced the zip up hoodie.

Why they are great: They are light weight and the perfect cover-up! They are flattering on all body types and easy to wear.

Bonus Points: They are great for breast feeding in public or pumping your milk in traffic! Don’t judge me! LOL! Yes…I pumped many time in traffic using a manual pump, wearing a wrap sweateror scarf

What: Comfy Cute Lounge Pants - $69-$98

Where to Buy: Kelly Nishimoto (Yes! That’s me) www.cutebootylounge.com

The Deets: My origional “Cute Booty” Pants should be in every woman’s closet pregnant or not! They are made with the softest stretchy fabric. The ruched back detail makes every womans booty cute and the over sized satin tie in the front “hides your goodies”

Why they are great: There is no elastic in the waistband so there is ZERO chance of muffin top! On top of that, I gained 60 lbs during my pregnancy and the same size fit me the entire time!

Bonus Points: They are the perfect post pregnancy pants! They were the only pants I wore after baby because, let’s face it…I was still extremely “fluffy”. And there is also a legging version…

What: Modern Maternity Jeans - $40-$70

 Where to Buy: H&M www.hm.com

The Deets: All of H&M’s Maternity Jeans are Jeanius! They are the perfect balance between comfortable & chic…and they have just the right amount of stretch!

Why they are great: The belly bands are made of cotton lycra! I don’t know about you…but maternity jeans with the gross poly lycra pantyhose feeling grosses me out & makes me itch…

Bonus Points: They are the best bang for you buck & the best fit for your belly!

What: T Shirt Dress - $35-$45

Where to Buy: Asos www.asos.com |Target www.target.com

The Deets: The T Shirt Dress. Any style, any color. These soft comfortable beauties are better than chocolate cupcakes. Try the swing version for extra room!

Why they are great: They are soft, comfy, & hide everything! They can be worn casual with cute flats, a cropped jean jacket, and some major arm candy or with chunky wedges or boots paired with a bad “A” necklace & red lipstick for a more glammed up look.

Bonus Points: Feels like you’re wearing pajamas! (Bloomers Suggested underneath for obvious reasons

20 Things You Don't Know About Courtney Lopez, Haute Mom Edition

You know her as the beautiful host of NUVOtv's Love And Salsa, from her VH1 reality show, Saved By The Baby with hubby Mario Lopez and as our new #HauteMomsLife Contributor but theres a whole lot to Courtney Lopez ya didn't know like who she'd change lives with for just one day.  So, here goes... 20 Things You Don't Know About Courtney Lopez, Haute Mommy Edition....

1. I can't live without my cute workout clothes. I like to be comfortable.

2. You'll never find me dressed up at the grocery store.

3. When I grew up I could run around my neighborhood with no worry .  My kids are growing up on a very tight leash. Times have changed.

4. I'm happiest when my whole family is together including my family and In laws from out of state.

5. Blood freaks me out most as a mother

6. Cute band aids make everything better when #5 happens. They make Gia so happy!

7. I've learned everything I know from my mom

8. What I don't know I learn from my mom

9. I get inspired by single mothers. They have such a hard job.

10. People think of me as sometimes guarded...but actually I have such a huge heart. I just don't like being taken advantaged of.

11. Lack of sleep surprised me most when I became a mom the 1st time

12. Even more lack of sleep with no time to nap because of 2 kids surprised me most the second time

13. I can't take when other mothers compare children.

14. The best piece of advice I've gotten is...be present. The days may feel long but the years fly by.

15. My family means the world to me.  I don't remember my life before them.

16. If I could change positions with anybody for one day it would be J LO.

17. I strive daily to make the best decisions for myself and family.

18. The 3 most important things in life, other than my family, are my doggies, coffee and coffee.

19. In 5 years you'll find me in the same kitchen making food for my husband, dogs and kids. I don't think I ever leave the kitchen!

20. My definition of a Haute Mom is this; If you're a Mom, you're a Haute Mom to me. What we do and what we give is just freakin awesome.

Has #Coachella Lost Its Cache?

Ummmm to say the least.  The Desert Fashion Show Music Fest is like sooooo 3 years ago.  All focus is on desperate girls trying to one up each other by playing their own game of "Who Wore It Better" Less about the songs, more about the celeb-spotting, #Coachella has turned into 1 big circus of bad fashion on posing hipsters.  Don't believe me?  Click here to see what our male counterparts have to say http://wittyandpretty.com/2015/04/17/what-guys-really-think-of-girls-coachella-outfits/