But There Is An "I" In Miraval

The old adage goes, "There is no "I" in team"  Good thing there is one in Miraval because that's just what this Haute Mama got when visiting the Tucson, Arizona wellness resort dedicated to inspiring life in balance.  For the first time, in a long time, It's all about what I want.  I think I will try the cardio dance this morning, then Iwill head to the spa for a hot stone massage.  Iwill grab lunch and a cocktail before 5 o'clock...and will jump off a 35-foot poll with a 360-degree rotating disc at the top (more to come on that) Why you ask?  Because I CAN!   

This was one of the best trip I've taken mainly because I was able to really reconnect with myself, something most, if not all, mothers forget to do.  Now, lemme just say this, if you're looking for over-the-top decadence, 5-star dining and white glove service, this may not be the place.  I guess the irony here is that I'm typically a bit of a hotel snob but I let that go mainly because what Miraval lacks in opulence, it makes up for in substance.  Think of it as Disneyland for adults but instead of running from ride to ride you're running from class to activity to spa treatment.  And like I always say, if it's good enough for Oprah, it's damn well good enough for me.  Yup, the big O marked her stamp of approval on this special destination.  If that's not enough, Kourtney Kardashian, The Real Housewives of Jersey and even Mel Gibson have all experienced Miraval's wonder.  

A couple quick tips: 1. Make sure you have snacks with you upon arrival.  After a long day of travel (it's an hour from the Tucson airport) you'll need them.  There's not a ton of food floating around the hotel at off-hours.  2. The hotel is all-inclusive so put away that change.  They don't allow tips of any sort which is one of the BEST aspects of this property.  It really helps you maintain that ultimate relaxation zone.  3. Tuck away your phone.  The hotel offers one area on grounds, other than your room, where you can talk on the phone.  Other than that, it is requested that you keep cell off and away.  Good news is you can bring them out to snap pictures.  4.  Keep an open mind...for obvious reasons.  The more you open yourself to new experiences, the more you'll grow.  

Miraval offers a picturesque desert backdrop for its more than 200 fun, informative, relaxing classes/treatments weekly, an award-winning spa, a complimentary juice bar, an actual bar bar (doesn't happen at many of these wellness resorts) and insanely cushy beds...drool drool drool.  We stayed 3 nights (wish it was more) but here are some of the classes I ♥ and a great way to plan your days, with Miraval's description.  I totally recommend this type of schedule because you get the best of all worlds.  

Day 1: BODY

Dance Class - You will learn choreography to Pop, Latin, Disco, Swing, Country, and Broadway tunes, improve your dance knowledge, connect with other dancers around the nation, and experience a feeling of pure “joy”! Dance Passion at Miraval provides the perfect setting to de-stress and focus on your goals.

Aerial Yoga - Breathe, flow and fly in this exciting new yoga practice that helps improve overall health and physical agility, lengthens muscles and releases tension throughout your entire body. You will stretch, strengthen and realign using the support of silk hammocks suspended three feet from the ground.

Hot Stone Massage - Hot stone massage is a guest favorite at Miraval. We’ve designed this new treatment to combine the grounding effects of hot stones with the power of botanicals. Heat from the smooth basalt stones comforts and calms the mind as it renders muscles more limber and open to manipulation by the therapist. Your skin more readily accepts the professional-grade, antioxidant-packed essential oils used in the massage, and your mind and body emerge in balance.

DAY 2: MIND

Equine Experience - This class offers you an opportunity to practice living life in the moment. Work with specially selected horses and our expert facilitators. You’ll perform equestrian ground skills, getting a chance to notice personal patterns of learned behavior that may be holding you back from the life you want to live.

Cocktails In The Kitchen - Start your evening with a behind-the-scenes tour of the main kitchen at Miraval. During this 45 minute class, enjoy a Chef created appetizer and cocktail while you learn about our food philosophy and healthy cooking tips and tricks. This experience is designed for 4 or more guests.

Anti-Aging Facial -A Clarins Miraval Creation featuring the NEW Super Restorative Moisturizer and Serum Eye Cream Combat the signs of aging with this focused and effective treatment to smooth fine lines, address hyperpigmentation issues and restore skin to a youthful radiance. A double cleanse is followed by a double exfoliation using glycolic and salicylic acids to stimulate cell regeneration. Your therapist will then perform a drain-and-soothe lymphatic massage on your face, neck and décolleté, using a repairative facial serum mixed with a shaping lift massage formula designed to increase circulation while detoxifying the skin. An age-defying restorative mask is then applied, followed by an age-fighting tri-peptide mask. Your skin is then treated with the New Super Restorative Serum, Eye Cream and Moisturizer to give you a radiant glow.

DAY 3: SOUL

QUANTUM LEAP - encourages you to make each movement with awareness and openness. Yet standing on the pole with another person complicates the activity in a way that is similar to how we experience compromise in other life relationships. Communication, trust and commitment are usually intimately integrated into the discussion. Quantum Leap II is a great event for teambuilding and strengthening relationships. Explore new ways of communicating and revitalize trust in yourself and others as you leap from a 35-foot pole.

Floating Meditation -enjoy the pleasure of being suspended from the ceiling in a nurturing yoga hammock while your mind is gently guided into a relaxed state. Experience the calming benefits of induced meditation while you are gently rocked to the soothing vibrations of crystal bowls. Release your mind’s stress, tension or worry while you “float” weightlessly in a silk hammock.

Hydrating Body Peel - A Clarins Miraval Creation An indulgent exfoliating treatment using botanical-based glycolic and salicylic acids that rids skin of impurities, while smoothing and softening the skin. Your therapist will apply an active exfoliating lotion to your body using a warm mitt; as it soaks in, it penetrates to your skin’s deepest level, removing dull surface skin cells to reveal the youthful skin beneath. Your rejuvenated skin is then treated to a full-body massage with an anti-aging balm rich in antioxidants. While you are lightly wrapped, your therapist will stimulate your scalp with an invigorating massage, then focus on your feet, thereby concluding the treatment. You’ll feel renewed and refreshed from head to toe. Guests may experience sun sensitivity and should apply sun block prior to any sun exposure after this treatment.

***For more info on pricing and availability, chk out www.miravalresorts.com

The ABC's of Oscar Fashion

Ok let's get REAL real here.  Last night's Oscar broadcast was about as enjoyable as watching paint dry.  The media can spin it any way they want but here's a dose of reality...IT SUCKED!  Thank goodness for some and I do mean SOME fabulous fashion on the red carpet.  In a sea of mundane (think Naomi Watts, Jessica Chasten and even fashion darling Lupito Nyongo) a few goddesses stood out representing our ABC's of Oscar Fashion.  Here goes...our best-dressed at last nights snoooooozefest

THE ULTIMATE A-LISTER: Jennifer Aniston effortless perfection in nude sparkly Versace.

THE BLONDE BOMBSHELL:  Margot Robbie in Saint Laurent and Van Cleef & Arpels statement necklace - reminiscent of iconic beauty Michelle Pfeiffer 

THE CLASSIC: Reese Witherspoon in Tom Ford. From her hair to makeup and of course the gorgeous gown, flawless all around

HAUTE MOM ALERT!!! I mean...Hello LADIES!  

Though not my fave getup from Scarlett Jo - in Versace, let's not forget she gave birth around 5 months ago...

 

And Rosamond Pike in Givenchy had a babe less-than 3 months ago! O M G Jaw on the floor! 

Kate Hudson On Shape

Kate Hudson blows it out of the water on the cover of Shape Magazine this month talking about what else, ya guessed it, her own famous shape....oh yea and her new adorbs activewear line, Fabletics. www.shape.com If you know anything about me, you know I'm in ♥♥♥ with K-Hud.  Not just because she's stunning, successful, cool (first hand experience from a couple unforgettable red-carpet chats but she exudes true happiness.  That is really hard to find.  Kate tells Shape mag she finds her balance in meditation...taking a few minutes for herself everyday even if it's just "staring at a wall"  Where'd she learn such wisdom??  Ya guessed it again, her own mama, Goldie Hawn.  But what I love most about this interview is what Kate reveals she doesn't do - making her a bit more like the rest of us - that keeps her at the top of her game.  She doesn't use a personal chef, she doesn't diet and she doesn't have some crazy celebrity fitness routine.  Instead the 35-year-old Haute Mom-of-2 enjoys cooking healthy meals for her family, exercises to "get oxygen to my brain" with a bike ride, TRX or boxing and overall leads a healthy lifestyle rather than relying on crash-diets for 2 weeks at a time.  Haute Mommies, let this inspire you to get out there and be the hauttest b#*$ch you can be!  

A Different Kind Of Valentine

My BFF's Bachelorette Party is this weekend, over Valentines Day at what's supposed to be the most heavenly destination on the planet earth, Miraval www.miravalresorts.com There's some real irony here.  First, most of us attending are either married or in serious relationships but spending V-day bonding with each other.  Second, a day designed for women across the country to dress up, or down theoretically, in the sexiest lingerie for their MEN is going to be spent decking out our WOMAN in bras, booty shorts, bustiers, you name it for her BLACK lingerie party.  Anywhoo...I'd heard about www.yandy.com as the go-to website for decorating our lovely lady lumps.  Lemme tell you, it does not disappoint.  They've got everything from the obvious-lingerie, to the playful- dresses, costumes, stockings, shoes, wigs, swimwear and more.  They cater to standard and plus size ladies (which I love) Oh and everything is totally affordable.  So while you Haute Mommies may be scrambling to find the perfect pair of panties to surprise your hubby with on V-day, I scored these for my girl on her B-day (Bachelorette Day) 

And more...

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11 Must-Haves For Your V-Day Vacay

 

V-Day is right around the corner, Haute Mommies!  That usually goes one of two ways:  1. Embrace It 2. Erase It...from our minds and the calendar, like forever. This year, we chose the former.  I wanted to show the Main (adult) Man in my life just how much I ♥ and respect him.  Scottie and I opted for an early Valentine's Day Vacay which also happened to be our first night EVER away from the little guy.  I was warned that it would be tough, I'd even shed a few tears, but seriously, I must be some cold, heartless bitch, that didn't happened.  In fact, I was ELATED simply to spend 24 hours focused on just the 2 of us.  I could actually read a magazine cover to cover...in silence!  I didn't have to look at a clock once...I could get drunk!  JACKPOT $$$  Lemme also say this: 24 hours was the perfect amount of time and the anticipation of returning home to our perfectly amazing giant bundle of PERFECTION (did I already say that??) felt like opening the BEST birthday present ever!!!  

We checked out the Ritz Carlton in Rancho Mirage www.ritzcarlton.com for our night away and couldn't have picked a more incredible destination.  From the spot-on service to the immaculate desert grounds, beautifully-apointed guest rooms (many complete with firepits) and exceptional grub gurrrrrls, this Palm Springs gem we used to visit as kids with our parents, has come full circle - becoming our 1st getaway as new parents.  I will go back again...and again....and again...until they kick my ass out  :)))  And what made our trip over-the-top-FAB were these 11 THINGS - that I hope you'll keep in the back of your mind before planning your next getaway. 

1) Fire 

FIRE

2) Water 

 3) Something Boozy

Wine

4) A Hangover Cure

 vacation advil

 5) Basta Bikini: Hautties, I wore this one throughout my pregnancy because the top offers great support www.bastasurf.com and it's still sexy as hell.

Basta

6) Blackout Shades, for obvious reasons

vacation blackout

 7) Tacos  They're not too much but just enoughvacation tacos

8) Vogue - cover to cover

vacation vogue

9) Missoni Headscarf, because nothing screams R&R quite like Missoni at the pool www.missoni.comvacation missoni

 10) Something New: In my case, these Ralph Lauren brand spanking new F$%* Me heels  The hubs thanked me BIGTIME

photo-29 copy 2 11) Nanny Cam- So you can rest assured it's all okay just when your mind starts to wander. We have ours hooked to our cellphones. www.summerinfant.com vacation nanny cam