A Different Kind Of Valentine

My BFF's Bachelorette Party is this weekend, over Valentines Day at what's supposed to be the most heavenly destination on the planet earth, Miraval www.miravalresorts.com There's some real irony here.  First, most of us attending are either married or in serious relationships but spending V-day bonding with each other.  Second, a day designed for women across the country to dress up, or down theoretically, in the sexiest lingerie for their MEN is going to be spent decking out our WOMAN in bras, booty shorts, bustiers, you name it for her BLACK lingerie party.  Anywhoo...I'd heard about www.yandy.com as the go-to website for decorating our lovely lady lumps.  Lemme tell you, it does not disappoint.  They've got everything from the obvious-lingerie, to the playful- dresses, costumes, stockings, shoes, wigs, swimwear and more.  They cater to standard and plus size ladies (which I love) Oh and everything is totally affordable.  So while you Haute Mommies may be scrambling to find the perfect pair of panties to surprise your hubby with on V-day, I scored these for my girl on her B-day (Bachelorette Day) 

And more...

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Quote Of The Day

"Find the balance between effort and ease" 

My yoga teacher said this in quote class today and it made so much sense.  I'm a fighter, a survivor, and one who believes that hard work almost always pays off.  But what happens when you work too hard at one thing?  Career, parenting, your so-close, almost-there, I-think-I-see-em six-pack of abs???  What then??  Plain and simple, we lose balance.  When we move in only one direction, we get out of balance. Our strengths may get stronger, but our weaknesses get weaker.  So I implore you to try something new, something different each day.  If your path is not leading you to the desired destination, change directions.  Anywhooo...sorry to get so heady but come on gurrrls...gotta go there once in a while ♥

Hauttie Of The Week: Energy, Nature, Attitude and Zest For Life

 

It's no shocker that my beautiful soul sista, Samantha Shapiro, is co-owner of 3 uber-successful Chicago clothing boutiques with her 2 sisters, aptly named, ENAZ, an acronym for Energy, Nature, Attitude and Zest for Life.  The blonde bombshell embodies all those qualities and takes #HauteMama to a new level.  She's a proud new member of the club, giving birth to a ridiculously adorable baby girl, Selma Maize on 11.4.14.  While Selma was still cozy, growing in Sam's belly, some real magic happened and she documented it in this series of beautifully tasteful pix.  We're excited to share this pregnancy shoot with you as potential inspiration for all you haute mommies hoping to capture a piece of your own journey.  Enjoy!

AC: What inspired you to do a pregnancy photo shoot?

SS: I wanted to capture how beautiful and empowering pregnancy is by dressing up the baby bump and also showing my creative side with fashion. 

AC: Who did you model it after?

SS: I wanted the pictures to give off a "bohemian chic" vibe which is really my favorite kind of fashion. I believe clothes can be so telling about a person so hopefully my pictures can convey my love for art and music. Fashion idols: Kate Moss and Sienna Miller

 

AC: The pics are seriously stunning. How did you ensure they turned out so flattering?

SS: Thank you!!! I thought if I stayed true to myself and wore things I was comfortable in, then the pictures would speak for themselves.

AC: Did you have any hesitation before stripping down?

SS: Who me? Never. I'm pretty comfortable in my skin (to say the least) and I would have never decided to have these pictures taken if I wasn't fully confident. My hope is that Selma will see these pictures and think I was a cool chick back in the day!

AC: What advice do you have for other Haute Mommies considering a pregnancy shoot? Was it worth it for you?

SS: I say go for it since being pregnant is such a blessing, why not capture it on film? It also sends a message to other pregnant women to love their bodies and to embrace the moment.

AC: Where are you displaying the pictures?

SS: I haven't decided what to do with them yet. I might include them in a cool coffee table book and choose my favorite one to hang in Selma's room.

AC: How far along were you when you shot?

SS: About 6 months

AC: Which is your fave and why?

SS: I love the one wearing a motorcycle jacket. It's a little rock n roll, all American and just bad ass!

AC: How much does a shoot like this cost?

SS: My very talented friend, Jackie Trezzo did this shoot in 2 1/2 hours. Not only does she have a creative eye but also helped with the lighting and styling all for under $500.

 

 

 

Supermom Stats

For all you supermoms out there...here's a bit of interesting info you may want to know: Moms account for about $2.5 Trillion in spending globally according to Oracle

2 Billion Moms in the world. Average age 25

84% of Millennial Moms rely on recommendations from trusted peers

60% of moms use social media everyday

The Power of Moms

  • Moms represent a $2.4 trillion market
  • Fifty-five percent of active (daily) social media moms said they made their purchase because of a recommendation from a personal review blog
  • 18.3 million Internet users who are moms read blogs at least once a month
  • In 2014, 63% (nearly 21 million) of all online moms will read blogs
  • Moms mention brands an average of 73 times per week compared with just 57 times per week among males
  • Seventy-seven percent of mom bloggers will only write about products or brands whose reputations they approve of, and another 14% will write about brands or products they boycott
  • Ninety percent of moms are online vs. just 76% of women in general
  • Sixty-four percent of moms ask other mothers for advice before they purchase a new product and 63% of all mothers surveyed consider other moms the most credible experts when they have questions

http://www.happyworker.com/supermom/facts#.VLlnBtxyygE

http://www.m2moms.com/fast_facts.php

Dig It Or Ditch It? Haute Mom's Addition

If you've had a baby, you know you get bomb-blasted with a shit ton of products that everyone just sweaaaaars by, leading to brain overload and in my case, acute anxiety disorder.  Here's a small way to help avoid the madness.  Buzzfeed breakdowns baby products according to the greatest critics of all, us, the mommies.  From sophie the teething giraffe to bottle warmers and everything in between, we uncover what you should dig or probably ditch.  A great guide for you new moms.  Check it out 

http://www.buzzfeed.com/mikespohr/these-are-the-items-parents-say-you-do-and-dont-n